The Caroline Historical Guide (1957) provides this introduction to the property:
"Rock Stop farm might have obtained its name from a geologic formation in the Rappahannock River, as the river makes a sharp bend; the river bank rising from near level with the river to soaring bluffs offering panoramic views of the huge duck marsh on the other side of the river."
"Tradition holds that the first unit of Rock Stop was built in 1791 and the physical evidence tends to justify this tradition. The builder of the original residence at Rock Stop is unknown. In the earliest Colonial Deed Books (1839) it was the property of Champe Brokenbrough Thornton.
"Thornton lived in Port Royal and never resided at Rock Stop except during the Civil War when he moved his family to the plantation for safekeeping after the commander of the Yankee gunboat threatened to shell the town."
Thornton (1820-1900) married Elizabeth Grammar and the family they produced included Mary Rosina Thornton who married into the David B. Powers family. From that union we have links to other prominent families in our church and/or graveyard – Holloways, Davis, and the Pratts. He is buried in our graveyard. This is the first connection to St. Peter’s.
In 1866, Thornton passed Rock Stop to his son, Champe Brokenbrough Thornton Jr. In the ensuring years, Mr. Thornton became indebted to numerous businesses and a public auction was held in Fredericksburg, Virginia and David Powers bought it at auction in 1877. That’s the second St. Peter’s connection.
Barbara Wisdom’s article on the farm described it this way: "The farm contained 255 acres and was described as a “most excellent farm and delightful residence.” The house and all necessary outbuildings were in first rate condition, and there on the river bank, besides a wharf, a barn, with a spout for delivering grain."
Powers sold the property to the Sale family who then conveyed to the to the Thomas Hugh Motley family in 1888. This is Barbara Wisdom’s family. Here’s our third connection. She relates their story:
"My great-grandfather/mother (Thomas Hugh and Lizzie Lee Broaddus Motley) bought this farm in the 1880’s. Several of their children were all born there:
"John Lewis (1890)
"Lizzie Lee (1894)
"Frank Broaddus (1896)
"(Three other children: Tommy, Laura and Ora were born and died very young or at birth. Their oldest child, Richard Hugh, was born in Middlesex Co. in 1882.) Richard lived at Rock Stop for many years.
"Their mother died in about 1898. Thomas remarried to Martha Ellen Sale. I have a wonderful photo of the Motley clan on the steps of the Rock Stop house. Ellen died in 1931 and Thomas in 1932. The farm then went up for public auction."
She also provided this wonderful 19th century or early 20th century photo: 
Here is her identification :
"Great-grandfather, Thomas Hugh Motley, Jr. (center holding his son, Frank Broaddus). To his left, my grandfather, John Lewis. In front of my grandfather, his sister, Lizzie Lee. Top row, upper right is my grandfather’s eldest brother, Richard Hugh
"His second wife is located in lower right corner of photo. (Her family — mother, father and brother are on the left side of Tom). Surrounding Tom on his right side are his brothers and sisters…"
To settle his father’s estate, John Lewis Motley sold Rock Stop, containing 257 acres, at public auction in 1935. Shortly before World War II, the farm was purchased by tennis star Helen Hull Jacobs, a lieutenant commander in the Waves stationed in Dahlgren. She later sold the property in 1966.
We must separate the home ("Rock Stop") and acreage from the larger property ("Rock Stop Farm"). The original property goes back to 1722 when Richard Buckner secured title to 4,500 acres along the Mattaponi-Rappahannock watershed, and after 1727 another 100 acres adjacent to the larger tracl.
The current farm property is actually several parcels. 120 acres which is itself composed of two parcels which has extensive river frontage that Alex Long is selling (fourth connection with St Peter’s) plus a home on 25 acres which involves the fifth connection. The remainder of the original property of 255 acres may be held by Philip St. George Trust (78 acres) and John Cocke (30 acres)
The fourth St. Peter’s connection with Emma Cocke with the Rock Stop home:
Jim Patton and Emma Cocke (2001) ;
From her obituary
"Emma Arntzenius Cocke, 92, of Caroline County died Wednesday, May 11, 2005, at her home, Rock Stop Farm.
"Mrs. Cocke was born in The Hague, Netherlands. She survived the Nazi occupation of northern Holland for five years. She came to the United States immediately after World War II.
"She was preceded in death by her late husband, retired U.S. Army Col. Philip St. G. Cocke IV, and her daughter, Emma E. Luckenbach."
"She was buried at Grace Episcopal Cemetery Bremo Bluff Fluvanna County.
At St. Peter’s she was active as treasurer of the ECW (1981).
Rock Stop Farm was bought in 1959 by U.S. Army Col. Philip St. G. Cocke IV and Emma. Emma Cocke retained the property after her husband’s death, and upon her death in 2005 at age 92, the property was divided between their two sons. Philip St. G. Cocke V received the main portion and John R. Cocke received Cottage Woods. This is a single story home with two bedrooms, one bathroom and a sun room that was created by enclosing a porch. It would make an ideal guest house.
John Cocke and his wife live at the Cottage Woods house, and the main house in the past has been occupied by a caretaker until the Fitzhughs bought it.
Here’s a newsletter article about Emma
From Free Lance Star, June 28, 2013
The property has now been conveyed to Phil and Kathryn Fitzhugh.
Restoration
When they came across Rock Stop Farm in Caroline County, Phil and Kathryn Fitzhugh weren’t looking for a house as much as they were for land to establish an organic farming operation.
They certainly weren’t looking for an old house that would need to be restored before they could live in it.
But life doesn’t always follow the intended path; nevertheless the Fitzhughs couldn’t be happier with the way things turned out.
“We are history buffs,” said Kathryn Fitzhugh, which explains a lot about how things progressed.
The house that sits on the property they bought dates to 1791. Its Rappahannock Academy location is historic as well, along Hicks Landing Road just off Tidewater Trail and not far from the Rappahannock River.
The derivation of the name “Rock Stop” is unclear, but it may have some relation to a rock formation in the river and the steamboat traffic that carried tobacco and other goods downstream to the Chesapeake Bay and north to Baltimore.
Before renovation
In any event, the house had seen better days. It might have even made sense to raze it and build new. But history buffs think twice before doing something so rash.
So last summer they sought out a contractor to help determine whether the house was worth saving. Enter Dan Spear.
Spear’s company, Spear Homes of Virginia, has built a lot of new homes in the Fredericksburg area, but in recent years the struggling economy gave him the opportunity to pursue his other love—old homes. He’s turned his property along Courthouse Road in Spotsylvania—Stevenson Ridge—into an events venue and virtual village of reconstructed historic structures.
He also restores the old homes of clients looking to retain the historical nature of their homes with salvaged and repurposed materials.
“To be able to save a place like this makes a great statement about the owners’ willingness to do it,” said Spear.
Spear determined that while the Fitzhughs’ house appeared decrepit, it was structurally sound and worth saving. He put the job in the hands of Dan Hannah, his historic-detail-oriented superintendent, and Ray Haney, a craftsman for Spear for the past 20 years.
RETAINING FLOOR PLAN
The original house was a standard two-over-two with a center hall and English basement. The basement had always held the kitchen, and that’s where it would stay.
“We thought of moving it upstairs, but we’d seen how it had been done in London,” said Kathryn Fitzhugh. “If they’re still doing it in London, we can do it here.”
The new kitchen, by Absolute Kitchen & Bath of Fredericksburg, has a rich cherry wood-topped island, granite countertops, cream-colored cabinetry and stainless steel appliances.
Above the kitchen fireplace, a portion of the original brick wall was left exposed.
Over the years, additions to the main level were built—one dating to the 1920s—and Spear said he found evidence that the structure was one and a half stories at first and raised to a full two stories at some point.
“It’s fun when you find those things,” Spear said.
A screened porch had also been added to the rear at some point.
There are two chimneys, each fed by three fireplaces stacked atop one another on the three levels. Safe Chimney Co. of Orange was called in to work on them. One quake-damaged chimney needed to be rebuilt.
The beautiful floors are mostly the original heart pine and required little more than light refinishing.
Spear called on Craig Jacobs of Salvagewrights Ltd. in Orange, his favorite resource for historical parts and materials.
The house needed to be gutted, but all possible trim and features were preserved and eventually put back in place. The old bead-board ceiling of a carport, which was converted into living space, was saved to become wainscoting in the basement dining room.
“It’s amazing the light that comes into the basement now that we’ve cleaned the windows and removed the bushes,” Spear said.
Some historically sensitive changes Spear made were to add salvaged pocket doors between the foyer and the left parlor, and to replace the main entry with a handsome double door taken from his own collection.
He also noted the original curved handrail on the main staircase, which would have been a straight piece of wood that was softened with steam and bent into shape.
HIDDEN SURPRISES
Once they got behind the walls, Spear said he was surprised at the differing levels of craftsmanship in the construction. He ended up needing to do significant structural work on the house as well as installing new plumbing (with tankless water heater) and electrical systems.
Phil Fitzhugh pointed to “before” pictures that show joists that were cut into by as much as two-thirds to run pipe, compromising their structural integrity. They were replaced and properly reoriented.
Given the impossibility of fitting ductwork within the framing, Spear and the Fitzhughs opted for Mitsubishi wall-mounted heating and air conditioning units. The house was sealed with a new Tyvek envelope and new insulation.
The exterior siding is LP SmartSide engineered wood clapboard. It pairs nicely with the new brickwork that was dusted with paint to help match areas of the original brick.
A new standing-seam metal roof was added, an ideal choice for the historic structure. French drains have been installed to avoid the use of gutters and downspouts.
The restoration cost exceeded the $250,000 they paid for the entire 25-acre property, Phil Fitzhugh said, but the land remained key to the deal.
“We’re getting land that hasn’t been treated chemically for 40 or 50 years,” he said, which is what you’d want for organic farming.
Kathryn said that with Spear’s help, the entire package has come together perfectly.
“We’re thrilled with our piece of history,” she said.
Richard Amrhine: 540/374-5406